....BEGINNING TO END......

I THINK I AM NOT EQUIPT FOR RELATIONSHIPS ANYMORE...
I FORGOT ABOUT ALL THE POINTLESS ARGUMENTS AND THE THINGS
THAT ARE SAID TO YOU SO YOUR FEELINGS CAN BE HURT...
THE EFFECTS OF SOMEONE WHO IS NOT IN YOUR MIND TELLING
YOU THAT WHAT YOU ARE SAYING YOU DONT MEAN AND IS BS
NOW THAT HURTS ME MORE THAN ANYTHING...
HOW CAN SOMEONE TELL ME HOW I FEEL....I CAN SIT AND TELL
YOU EVERYTHING I FEEL ABOUT A SITUATION AND STILL BE TREATED
LIKE I AM SPEAKING BS....

I CAN NOT HANDLE ALL THIS ANYMORE.... I THINK I AM READY TO START
THE BEGINNING OF ENDING THIS THING I CALL A RELATIONSHIP
IT WAS NICE WHILE IT LASTED AND I LEARNED ALOT ABOUT MYSELF
BUT I DONT EVEN FEEL HE WANTS TO BE IN IT ANYMORE....
MAYBE I PUSHED HIM AWAY
MAYBE ITS MY FAULT
MAYBE I WAS NOT AS GOOD OF A GF AS HE CLAIMED I WAS
MAYBE THE PERSON I AM IS NOT WHAT IS MEANT FOR HIM
BUT I FEEL SO STRONGLY THAT HE IS MEANT FOR ME....
MAYBE I AM GOING AGAINST MY OWN ADVICE....
IM TRYING TO HOLD ON TO A LEAF IN MY LIFE THAT IS ABOUT TO WEATHER
AND PASS AWAY...
IDK WHAT TO SAY OR DO

IS THIS THE BEGINNING OF THE END????

I'm just being......SIMPLY_ME

P.S. Is that good enough anymore????

taken it lightly

SO EVERYTIME I GET ON FACEBOOK I SEE NEW PPL

"SAYING" THEY ARE GOING TO GET MARRIED....

NOW I DONT KNOW ABOUT SOME PPL BUT I PREFER NOT TO TAKE

SOMETHING SO SERIOUS, SO DAMN LIGHTLY...



JUST BECAUSE HE/SHE DID THE THINGS THE LAST MATE WOULDN'T

DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU CAN JUST FALL ALL IN LOVE IN ONE WEEK AND

MAKE IT OFFICIAL WITH VOWS..

LETS GET IT TOGETHER PPL...





REMEMBER:

SOME PPL ARE ONLY IN YOUR LIFE FOR A SEASON AND A PARTICULAR REASON

THEN THEY DRY UP AND FALL OFF THE TREE WHEN ITS TIME FOR CHANGE....



ADVISE:

KNOW WHO YOU ARE IN CHRIST

BEFORE YOU THROW THE RICE....



peace and love

just know....

I'M JUST BEING......SIMPLY_ME

THE NEXT LEVEL

okay so one of my good good friends just told me some
interesting things about her "new" relationship...
well this is how it goes...
so the boy she has been talking to for a little over a year now
finally has come to terms of wanting to settle down and make her
his girlfriend...
now many of you may ask why did i put new in quotations marks
well they have already had the relationship as if they were GF and BF...
now i know many may say they were already in a relationship but the reality of the
situations is that without the titles you really do not know what the other person
expects of you or you really do not know that person likes and dislikes until the titles
are added.

Now what I advised her to do was to have a conversation letting each other know what they
will expect of one another. Let each other know based of passed relationships or even things they have seen in others ppl relationships what bothers you and could potentially
lead to a break up.
It may seem a little juvenile or even a little precocious but it will help out relationships far more than you think.
Me and my hubby did it and it really helped out the relationship.
we know what makes each other tick. (some may say its not a good idea to tell your mate what
makes you tick but i think that is crap....I digress). By knowing this
you have the ability to either use this info for good or bad. you can use this to hurt your
partner or to build a solid foundation.

Now with that said I am far from saying that your relationship will be perfect
I mean you will have times were stuff that you use to do at the beginning of the relationship
and your mate acted like it was cute but really hated it...that will all come out in an argument.
you have to work on these things. each person must be welling to change some things about themselves and the ones around them that may be hurting their relationship (that is another day of blogging....lol).

To end on a good note tonight.
just know that you need to have be ready fror a drastic change when you except that GF
or BF title from your siginifacant other. It may seem like they are nagging
or even just starting an argument but YOU HAVE TO LISTEN TO MAKE IT WORK.
One last thing ppl be ready to come to terms with those things you
dont see as a big deal and something that may hurt your mate in a
way you will not understand at times but youwill eventually get....

G'night bloggers

Im just being.....SIMPLY_ME

FRIENDS I NEVER HAD

SO EVIDENTLY THEIR ARE NEW FRIENDS IN MY LIFE THAT UNDERSTAND ME BETTER THAN THE ONES I HAVE. I MEAN I LOVE THE ONES I HAVE DON'T GET ME WRONG BUT SOMETHINGS THAT MY GOOD FRIEND M BOOGEY HAD ME THROUGH...I KNOW I COULD NOT DEPEND ON MY CURRENT ONES TO HAVE MY BACK THE WAY SHE DID. I MEAN SHE WAS DEFENDING A VERY IMPORTANT PERSON IN MY LIFE WHEN I COULD NOT BE THERE TO DO SO.

I DIGRESS....

THE WHOLE PURPOSE OF THIS IS TO JUST SAY I HAVE OUT GROWN MY FRIENDS I HAVE. I FEEL THAT I AM PROGRESSING AND GROWING AS AN INDIVIDUAL AND THEY R JUST AT A STAND STILL. I NEED TO SURROUND MYSELF WITH PPL LIKE ME...

ITS JUST HARD TO FIND THOSE PPL WHO WILL FULL SUPPORT ME AND NOT HATE ON ME BEHIND MY BACK. I DO NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO...

MORE ON THE ISSUE TOMORROW...

PEACE AND LOVE